There’s a quote posted on this topic of human attraction that’s been attributed to Thrya Samter Winslow that states “Platonic love is love from the neck up.” Yes, it’s quite possible to love somebody, but not to be in love with that same person! It’s a form of emotional feelings that people tend to receive. A few can’t understand why somebody would ever want to hold an interest toward themselves unless some notion might be on the horizon, although this was never intended nor implied as evil or wrong. Some people feel that they don’t want nor need another friend. Sure, one can go to the other to say something like “wanna hang out?”, but sometimes the other may not have the time, ability, nor interest to “hang out” with the other. However, unlike crushes where one is seeking a deeper relationship toward another, squishes can be a bit problematic. Squishes, like crushes, can work in one’s favor.
#URBAN DICTIONARY SQUISH TV#
These guys can hang out through their associations at the gym, the golf course, the playing field, the office space, or even through spending quality time at their favorite watering hole tipping a few cold ones while watching the game on many TV screens that are all over the joint! Even men may have a liking toward their “best buds”. Women tend to have such feelings toward their “girlfriends”. Assuming that one is living within a local domestic domain in this post-modern universe, one may be involved in a romantic relationship, or perhaps had some kind of involvement of that nature. But it’s quite possible to develop “squishes” during this stage of life.Īs one become older, these same feeling progress, but not necessarily as strong as they were a near decade or two beforehand. Folks in their 20’s make efforts for friendship as well. It continues through middle school, high school, and even for the college bound. As they get older, that is where the term “crush” kicks in, and these kids become of age. Many kids find their friends through school, sport activities, or clubs or groups the kids in connected to. Kids tend to make friends with little effort since they have yet to learn or develop many of their trials and tribulations one holds as an adult. This stage of taking attraction toward another person begins at a very young age. (A pair of guys that are close or being brotherly in nature, but remain asexual.) It may be the same of a “BFF” (“Best Friend Forever”), or even a “Bromance”. One may like a person because of their personality. Generally speaking, this is a person that you want to be with because some element the person has, yet holds no interest in having a sexual relationship with. It’s a second cousin to a “crush”–a feeling toward another person that may contain romantic purposes.Īccording to the website, a “squish” is of the equivalent of a “crush”, but explicitly lacking an interest in forming a romantic couple or having a sexual relationship with the person in question…A squish is an intense feeling of attraction, liking, appreciation, admiration for a person you urgently want to get to know better and become close with… This method of fondness is known as a “Squish”. However, it’s assumed that person “B” doesn’t necessarily knows of person “A”’s real intentions, or perhaps person “B” isn’t necessarily interested in person “A” in the same way that person “A” holds. However, person “A” keeps a liking toward person “B”. Person “A” holds a desire with person “B” that doesn’t involve any love, romance, or anything of a sexual nature. It seems that person “A” is taking a shine toward person “B”. However, be it between a man and woman, or as a pair of men or women, the notion is still the same. We don’t know the genders of the people addressed within the letter. What should I do to surpass my feelings toward this person without jeopardizing my current relationship? Although I am part of a domestic relationship, I feel that I am taking a strong liking toward this person. This person has a nice personalty that I’m attracted to. There is this person that I see once in a while at a church-related group I belong. Unlike the letters we occasionally receive commenting on what we write about, this one appeared to ask us on some advice of a personal nature. Not too long ago, we received this rather interesting message sent via e-mail.